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It is difficult to love each other to get along easily, it is current people a kind of understanding to love and marriage. So where to get along to be in hard hard? Have the problem of nerve type difference? The case below perhaps is inspired somewhat to everybody. ■ lady of king of case memoir 　 and Mr Li is a pair of couples of more than 30 years old. Ms. Wang is typical perceptual character, and the reason that Mr Li is a model and logic are changed. Since they marry, get all the time the worry of indescribable problem, always cannot live harmoniously, want always finally to be troubled by Ms. Wang be furious, and Mr Li is exceedingly confused. They do not know, oneself marriage is after all how. ■ advisory process 　 afternoon, ms. Wang and Mr Li couple walked into remedial room. This is a pair of husband and wife of more than 30 years old, mr Li straightens his clothes and sit properly on sofa, and Ms. Wang looks at me afraidly, reveal a grimace. I am smiling to ask: "What is you come here to be encountered to perplex? " 　 king lady sees me, see Mr Li again. Mr Li one twitch one's mouth, ms. Wang says first rapidly: "Doctor, be such, I and my home gentleman always cannot communicate, and say to not be clear about encountered what worry. " 　 plum gentleman is incompact say slow: "Either such, because she is too tall to emotional life requirement,be, too pursuit is perfect. " 　 king lady is a little excited, she is restraining excited, say calmingly to me as far as possible: "Doctor, we are such, I talk, he explains some of theory with me, I say his ceaseless explanation again, the result also does not know how to answer a thing to make a noise rose. " I discover 　 this has a characteristic to the couple, it is the characteristic that some reason change Mr Li, and the characteristic that Ms. Wang has perceptual moral quality. When Ms. Wang talks, she was to be full of those who expect actually, expect the other side to be able to answer in order to accord with the means of own intention back and forth namely. But, mr Li is responded to however with truth and theory. This makes Ms. Wang feel the control sex of Mr Li, be eager to casting off control then, but at this moment Mr Li thinks Ms. Wang is done not have understand or cut in, then more the truth that is eager to him explanation, this your king lady feels more be not understood [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], two individual development are conflict. I hear this truth explanation to them. I say: "What actually Ms. Wang wants is a kind of emotive is satisfied, the speech that needs the man can accord with him illusion to expect mediumly, and Mr Li always uses theory to answer back and forth, and think only question is Ms. Wang did not realize the truth of here face. This kind of different to the problem judgement makes if two people say, you are like two parallel, can never hand in collect, cannot be to what the problem is reached even consistent. " 　 king lady listened to exert all one's strength place head, nod to see Mr Li at the same time at the same time, and the pattern that Mr Li shows suspicion, and the look that does not respond to Ms. Wang. Ms. Wang says a little depressed and discontentedly: "You look, he is such, you say whats he still holds to he is one that set. " this ability sees 　 plum gentleman wife, murmur: "The person should have his definite idea, cannot listening to wind is rain. " 　 king lady is a little excited raise sound to say: "Always be you are opposite! I all along incorrect, will this look for a doctor, is what the doctor says incorrect also? " 　 plum gentleman sees me, shake shake one's head, silent. This pair of husband and wife, the wife is depended on very easily and accept the notion of others, and the man is very independent, and beyond the mark suspicion, this makes they formed each other complementary basis. What the dependence of the wife satisfied the husband is regnant desire, the sensibility of the husband that made up for a wife independently and without fixed definite idea. But, this kind of base that makes them be united in wedlock arrived coexist became the contradictory conflict that get along however when one room. This pair of husband and wife, it is enemy of road of a pair of narrow really. I say: "There are a lot of differences between your husband and wife, these difference may are the foundation that attracts you to go in the begining, but the difficulty that communication became however when getting along. Marital reason and independence make the wife feels to be criticized, feeling is harmed, and the dependence of the wife and make without definite idea the husband feels unconscionable, cannot communicate. " the orbit of 　 king lady is wet [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], she murmurs: "Be such. " next silent. Mr Li sees a wife, the handkerchief that gives him past, ms. Wang is wiping an eye with the handkerchief, sobbing in a low voice. Mr Li sits a bit, patting the back of the wife gently. Ms. Wang sobs badlier. Mr Li may be to fear oneself hurt Ms. Wang, sit to compare far position so again. I say: "There still is love between your husband and wife, be sentient foundation, this from you between subtle body language can see. But [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you have different view and explanation to the speech of the other side and behavior, this also created your problem. For instance, after be cared by Mr Li Ms. Wang sobs, this is a kind of feeling after the woman feels love is revealed actually, but Mr Li sits again,answer further position, seeming is to feared to hurt Ms. Wang. You are right same a behavioral understanding is different, should not say the language that differs with two kinds is conveyed more, can produce a lot of misunderstanding more. " 　 king lady is brushed brush an eye, light tone says: "Yes, he always says to be afraid of disturb me, and I never had thought I can be disturbed by him! " 　 plum gentleman looks at a wife, say clearly to me again: "Everybody needs to have his independent space, no matter man woman is same, I do not hope to disturb her of course. This has had experience, she cries previously I comfort her, as a result she cries badlier, I am afraid of cause her the mood is bad, ability can not wish to disturb her, but she pays no attention to solution. " 　 king lady sees the man, sighed, say: "It is you pay no attention to solution. " I say 　 : "You feel the other side did not understand his meaning, can be the information that the other side also did not give out to be able to be understood when you communicate. For instance, if Ms. Wang conveys her meaning clearly, tell Mr Li he needs how to be done, mr Li can understand and carry out; And if Mr Li asks Ms. Wang more experience, is not the point of view that expresses his only, then Ms. Wang also can experience more attention. When the talking kind that becomes you makes a change a bit, the information communication between you is met more unobstructed. " Qing Dynasty of 　 plum gentleman clears the throat, say: "This I can be accepted. What is what want her to let me understand she wants only actually, I am met for certain one hundred percent goes finishing. " 　 king lady is looking at the husband [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], say gently: "Go finishing a job? You with respect to the won't natural heart that understands a woman? " 　 I am smiling to say: "Ms. Wang can regard the husband as a stupidder person, need you to teach him, need you to tell him how to act, such he can be achieved and clever person studies the effect euqally. " the laugh that 　 king lady feels embarrassed, say: "The expectation that perhaps is me is too tall. " I also laughed at 　 , say: "Actually, a lot of women hope the man resembles having the idea that he understands like reading intention, but you do not say him, how does he know again? " 　 plum gentleman nods, say: "I want to listen to her after all to want me now how. " ground of blushing of be ashamed of 　 king lady sees the man, say: "This still feels embarrassed really say. " I say 　 : "Because Ms. Wang feels embarrassed,say just about actually, mr Li pays no attention to again, just create the obstacle that communicates between you, mr Li began to ask now, doesn't Ms. Wang say even? " 　 king lady sees me, if think of a place to nod somewhat, see the man again, say: "When you talk, I should look at my eye, when I want me to cry, you are holding me in the arms, I want the explanation that you keep with me no longer. What to still have, I want to say with you again. " say, ms. Wang was teased by oneself, chuckle ground laughs, mr Li does not become aware on solemn face originally also float removed smiling expression. Ms. Wang stops laugh, say to me: "Doctor, thank you really, help us solve so big problem, originally we do not know what the problem is! " 　 plum gentleman reminds her: "The likelihood returns insoluble all problem this [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I still can cooperate. " I am smiling to say: "You look, this falls, the thinking ability of Mr Li is sent again went up use, and the feeling of the home that the ability of pleasant atmosphere also can bring Ms. Wang apply colours to a drawing Mr Li warmth. You should have coordinated respective difference only, can foster strengths and circumvent weaknesses, your domesticity quality still can continue to improve. " 　 king lady nods acknowledgment, mr Li takes appearance to help Ms. Wang put on, ms. Wang pulls the arm of Mr Li, walked out of advisory room. Our first the interview ended so. ■ psycho 　 is in the following interview, I discover they live in different domestic environment in one's childhood, the family of Ms. Wang emphasizes confluence and help each other, the family of Mr Li stresses responsibility and independence, formed two people's different their individual character and communication kind from inside so different family, everybody still is in use the communication means of him past family at marriage, the result formed a lot of misunderstanding. Through seeking advice, they more and more achieved each other to understand, on the foundation of understanding, the quality of domestic communication had very big improvement. Leave in them when seeking advice, ms. Wang tells me, they want to give birth to a child, regard them as the crystallization of love. This is the result that they move toward harmony. Ms. Wang and the problem of Mr Li do not depend on loving, and depend on two people having very big difference, and do not know this differentia surprise each other. Through seeking advice, two people increased understand one another, avoided a lot of misunderstanding, relation quality nature can be improved. This case also tells us, although the difference between the couple is the reason of appeal before marriage, in the inchoation that the problem is however after marriage. Say to Yue Youfu is crossed between husband and wife wife photograph, the consistence that has nature more also should be crossed between husband and wife. Such, mutual the stumbling block that the difference between just may not be marriage, however marital flavor enhancement. Reason of interior dictionary 　 changes: Those who point to is this the individual is used to show an issue with theory and idea, solve a problem, and not quite be good at using an experience, experience and mood. Relevant Information：

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