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These are just a few of my insights, my thoughts. They are not accusations or complaints against anyone or anything. I invite you to provide your views on it.
A tough time in a person’s life may be a real TEST taken by HIM. During tough times, a person's nature, behavior, perceptions and attitudes may change for the rest of his life. When times are bad for a person, there can be many possibilities, three of which can
2.) The second category of person is that he starts underrating himself. He may develop an inferiority complex and may lose confidence in himself. He may find all faults with himself even when he is not at fault. He may become very compliant,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], meek, non-assertive, over emotional. He may take wrong perceptions of self. Everything appears so difficult for him to do.
1. The person may either become very ungrateful to all or shower anger and frustrations on all or blame every other person for something not happening according to his choice. He may become hot and short-tempered. He may become demanding and complaining. He becomes very rigid and inflexible.
So when the bad days are gone, the first type may remember and curse the days,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the second one feels relieved and try to forget them and the third one may thank God for these days for they became his learning lessons of life.
3.) The third one is seldom seen and this person is the strongest of all. During his bad times,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he builds up his mental strength. He knows that present situations are not within his reach. So he concentrates his attention somewhere else but still making efforts to solve his problem. In this process, he gets new skills. He tries to increase his personal worth and asset value. His confidence is enhanced and he starts having faith in himself. He learns new things and he becomes more forgiving, rational, patient, assertive... So the worst period of his life becomes his best teacher. The bad days in his life help him learn well.