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Family Education of rural students (b) by: ferryman

Family Education of rural students (b)
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????????????????? Original starting in 2008-11-25?? Popularity: 6996 Lecture: A Comparison of Chinese and foreign parent education
- of \and his \No matter which house, which the family is a nation that the first school and parents is the first teacher, family education is the most basic position. Strong interest in today's international competition,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], all competition until the final analysis, the competitive culture. A sense that the only competition is the first competition of family education. Therefore, in the new millennium, the world's only educational project, attach great importance to this part of family education. From Lao Tzu, Confucius, Mencius pay attention to since the days of \Thousands of years, throughout the field of family education in the education of ancient thought, brilliant, such as: inspirational Masanori, respect for young and old, repair-oriented, as if determined to self-improvement, learned deliberative, Loyalty to report and so on. The long history of excellent ideas, extend so far, along with the development of economy and culture has undergone many changes, is getting a lot of errors, and some even had a de-change. Especially in the post with the world economy and culture to highlight from some of the weaknesses. I have a lot of family education have gradually deviate from the \Therefore, if we draw lessons from outside the essence of family education, foreign, weaknesses, family education for out of my Mistakes will be good source of inspiration and wake effect. Now I just want to by the United States and other family education-related aspects of the comparison, especially in the \some of the Enlightenment. We can not say this, the United States out of the family education and training is the modern ideal, but they are reasonable in the home sub-family education, family education may be precisely what I encountered in the desolate and bottlenecks.
one, from \imparting knowledge, but a healthy cell. The child's \Let me from social experts Professor Sun Yunxiao \
1993 年 7 months, the Youth Research Center,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], deputy director of \This paper records the boy in mid-1992 in Inner Mongolia 8 (Hero dragons plum, Yurong Wulanchabu grazing year) at a prairie adventure camp, activities are fully exposed in the capacity of children to survive and the young people many problems existing in the education, \The result is to promote the maximum of \
1992 年 8 months, 77 of the children came to Inner Mongolia, together with 30 children held in a 50 km Prairie Adventure Camp (the original plan of the team is 100 kilometers).
A, the child was sick back to base camp to sleep, the child is ill endure a walk in the end
in a pretty girl had left a few miles to disease down, a mass of huddled, shivering and see a doctor burst into a ball. So she was sent back to base camp, re-lying Simmons, enjoy the fragrance of tea with milk in Inner Mongolia. The child is a child, but also still sick. Small children Kuroki Yusuke sto[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]h pain, pale face, sweat, such as beans. Discovered in the leader, let him hold him down bag, let him ride it is not. He said: \greatly to breathe. After only child, he Youpaqilai to move on.
B, the parents drive away, leaving only the encouragement of the grandson of a high fever; the parents came, the son of a difficult road to pull a cart. Starting early the next day before the City Council of the Township Miyazaki drove Mr. Tian Shi came to visit the two children. At this time, his grandson had a high fever more than a day, many thought he picked up the kids. Who knows, he only encouraged the grandson of a few, did not hesitate to drive away. The parents can do? When the roads washed away by flood, the Work Committee for cadres at a place a few horses to their children cars, driving fast way out of difficult areas.
C, the earthquake in the grasslands of the kids roar
After two days of trek, the victory of the two children arrived at the destination, the sea wolf places. Declared closed when the summer camp, Miyazaki City Council Township, Mr. Tian Shi summarized. He specifically asked the children shouted: \! \God! This is the education of future generations it? This is the Japanese national spirit? When the child looked up, each with tears the eyes are flashing. In the group of the child, their parents standing and the whole of the nation.
D, in the child's performance in our hearts heavy pressure
question mark left in the smiling, easy demeanor, but left in Thinking it is heavy. We in the grasslands, the children have used the debris away with a good plastic bags. They found a lark eggs, enclosed wooden horse, to remind you not to step on. The children left the Congress and the nation's traditional virtues, but the child can go all the way we lost in all the way, to the beautiful grasslands of Mongolia left what is it? Only abandoned and complain ... ...
just a summer camp, many of the weaknesses exposed in the children: one is to use some of the children of cadres and to send their children to the starting car place, not one of the students; second is less than half the distance, and dry food all students swallowed it demonstrated, the students are almost did not move about; third is throwing high school students to eat, all the students away with a plastic bag installed; Fourth the child is sick to withdraw, the student is sick must adhere to in the end and then worse ... ... it had to make our house thinking the training objectives of education and training modalities. First, what are we to need to train for? Every nation is nurturing future generations, the special attention to living conditions and environmental awareness, foster children's abilities and ethics; us? Tamarind dragon, but what is the dragon? The performance of our hearts to let the kids are suffering, not knowing too much care can only make them lose their viability. This has publicly said the child is not your generation of our opponents! Second, how are we trying to develop their own child's problem. Is the nurturing type room, or outside the temper-style? 80 on behalf of the 90 generations of a new generation of young people dare to take some of this history of national risk and responsibility?
story does not end: August 2000 5, the \Two young people in a mountain climbing expedition. 8 of 750 members to a summer camp team, with 14 hours of hard trekking and climbing struggling to conquer the 2,053 m of the original Mountain - Black Mountain Ji.
A. Before climbing, the kids prepared, in small children lack the East West; the children sleep quietly, the children excited playfulness.
B. Climbing on the way, the children sing, talk, the children silent, buried to walk; the children seem to have made endless effort, the kids are always want to rest.
C. The children drank less than a destination, not the, most children in the pot already toast halfway empty, dry and looked at home gusto to drink.
global competition, education is the key. If, in the children in the world do not have the competitive edge in the can to date? Black Mountain Camp Ji, Professor Sun because in person, finally playing in a tie. But the battle is not over, China and South Korea in 2004, youth adventure camp three contests, is still lost.
2004 年 8 months, Chinese, Korean, three groups of 90 young international Prairie Adventure summer camp in the Inner Mongolian grasslands were once again. Rare in the north coincided with the high, the trip is very difficult. The boy is still back huge bags, were fully prepared to live outside. But they do not cope in the child, the ranks of mobile phones ringing constantly, are complaining to the parents. Less than half of tour, the children drink it, and dry food to eat, and the children of the Han, Basic did not move, unopened dry food, high school students asked: \life is in danger, do not not drink! \Conclusion of the event, Ben, Han children Mongolian culture, tourism resources much appreciated, reluctant to leave,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], while the children are eager looking forward to go home early.
We do not issue such a question: there is a serious moral defects of these new in the next generation, can afford homes in the future? Eight or nine in the morning too, or it? Two public attitudes towards children and education differences, which is perhaps the real difference between the two nations. Children placed in a resurrection, let the children put a honeypot conceivable music, this is not a battle of life and death, what is it? We should think of a whole nation's problem: the core of education is to learn to do it or teach knowledge? Education is liberation, or give the yoke?
very unfortunate: the error in the child's education are stifle vitality. Not a lot of parent will be opened together, but almost always say a few words: \The real hidden danger. Is this is the year, Mr. Lu said, \Education is the cause, satisfying both creating the future, but also ruined the future, two hearts, two destinies. Many worked hard to nurture the child the parent is the fate of the tragedy, are struggling with their own goals to destroy. Education is stepping up its manufacturing error in the 21st century catastrophe.
Black Mountain Adventure Summer Camp Although JI has won in the children, but does not indicate the problem has been resolved in education, especially secondary school students exposed to the journey of a series of cases of problems are Achilles heel of our students. The father of a considerable number of adventure for children, in the event of accidental injury, are often told the court the school; the general support of the parent of a child is an adventure, an accident themselves. Ji mountain adventure in the black end of the day late, due to torrential rain made, washed away seven children summer camp, one of which died. Professor Sun asked the care of the household Harada true knowledge, and said: \, in the event of an accident, this will add to the collective that is its own trouble, shall be a responsible, serious injury by the insurance settlement are generally not investigated the responsibility of the organizers. They often put the parent school, the teacher told the court practice, find it difficult to understand.
Here let us look at how the Chinese and the parents sued the school is now the case.
\rupture was removed, made five disabled. Parents ask schools for compensation 3,265,000 yuan. Although the amount of compensation from the school 2 million to 10 million, but the minimum compensation required from the parents are still 100 million poor 90 million. Wuchang City, Hubei Province
two girls in a middle school in the sudden death of long-distance running in the winter Kwak. Requiring schools to compensate parents for 14 years raising a child costs 9 million, and adjusted compensation costs and housing subsidies to appease a total of 5 million, real firm rescue therapy costs, funeral fees.
Youth Research Center and all the Working Committee Office of the launch of a small blue book \One physical education to all students in the playground. One of the students were Xiaomou Volleyball accidentally kicked the wall on campus, in order to retrieve the ball, Xiaomou the help of two students climb the wall, but unexpectedly fell off from the wall, the paralyzed. August 1996, Shaw told the court in the fifty-four, and the amount of claims raised 940,000 yuan.
According to incomplete statistics, only Gimhae students in the 4 years of school the teacher told the court the father of economic compensation cases have more than 200, which does not include the parent and school students in private mediation to resolve.
This is already seen in the aging network of newspapers past. I'm in one, the federation, Chengguan Central Primary School and other students of accident casualties occurred, the parents claim the school alarming, especially in Central Primary School sixth grade students to find a school in the holidays while drowning claims the event is not so incredible it?
chilling look at these numbers, I just do not understand the reason why even in ideology between the parents, there will be such a big difference? It can be said for 16 years, with the other three Beijing Youth Summer Camp Adventure contest for students, more than just a contest between students, but students behind the parents, teachers, social contest. Is different from the national home contest of the quality and destiny of the nation! In education should also be the same with the world of education: the core of education should not only to impart knowledge, but should learn to do first! Thus, education is liberation, by no means give the yoke. A civilized, modern society, even pay a high price, but also the liberation of children, but also to save the children vibration. \To the children in the United States and children of the kind of training to adapt to harsh environments and have independent viability \
Second, from the United States, \America's \They generally keep the kids eat too full, not afraid of little kids wear, children wear an unlined fall out they are not afraid of kids cold play, the child fluids and generally do not get sick, they think that children have a strong self-healing capabilities . So the parents think that children only develop in childhood, the ability to survive adversity in order to confront difficulties and the real meaning.
2, training to adapt to harsh environments and with the independent viability of the United States the focus of family education. Based on this concept, the United States attaches great importance to children from small families from the exercise. Such as labor training, exercise strong will, patience and spirit of bearing hardships and so on. But the most fundamental thing is to adapt to the environment and the ability to work hard exercise. Hard labor and the environment to overcome difficulties, strengthen their will to develop a specialty, an increase of intelligence, and form hard, frugal of good quality.
3, family education, financial education is a branch of the United States, therefore attaches great importance to every family has a family pocket book. His father is generally not unprincipled, unplanned money to the children, but children with a fixed fund to be paid regularly. And to help children establish the correct financial management awareness, support sound financial habits, but also focusing on the basic quality of training money. Their parents teach children to develop budget plans to spend a reasonable Institute; encourage children to go out to work, on their own labor to earn income; educate their children save money, not wasteful; to help children learn to donate to help him; education before money should raise a child honest, have self-esteem before money; simple saving is a virtue, and other social consciousness.
4, never worked hard for the kids to college. U.S. parents generally make recommendations to the children learn, as children and parents are equal, so the kids all day in a relaxed learning and life. Accompany the parent because the child never to give up his appointment book, watching movies and vacations and so on. Meanwhile 18-year-old child, the parent no longer exercise the duty to bring all the kids their own independent existence, even if still in school, parents are never again to intervene. Earn money to feed themselves by their job search, complete their studies their own money (including from abroad).
5, parents, students take the initiative to assume responsibility for the accident accidental disability. School children in school or disabled for some reason an accident and other accidents, the parents take the initiative to apologize to the teacher to the school, consider that it created problems for the school, but also help schools to identify the causes of accidents, teach children how to overcome this accident, is generally not claim to the school.
look at the family's \
1, Xin efforts to create a learning environment for their children. Many families tend to focus on children will amount to anything, have a good career, spent his life in good times. Based on this expectation of most parents that the parent's responsibility to get them a good life: how much happiness children can give give much happiness, even if the child has heart dug willing heart and liver. To this end, the long process of the child, in addition to learning, in addition to the children the most favorable living conditions and what not let the children dry; As for the child's independent living skills, ability to adapt to the future society, and civic awareness and so are rarely considered, and some do not even consider.
2, no matter how tough the child can not be hard for children to spend money worth it. The parents spoil their children, responsive, and no financial sense. Parents that support the family and management of money is the big thing, the children are still far away from them. They had no money when they ask the parent to be. Even after the house also can be the parent for money. The parent is always free of money to their children, blind children unconditional money to meet the requirements of the consumer over-indulge their children look. Some parents read to their children a good school to spend lots of money to buy a good university at school,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], even the eyes, the skin is blinking.
3, \The parents as the greatest happiness and honor. Work life is the greatest good for the kids to a University of toil. Also for the children's work and even after college home career pains. Can be said that children from kindergarten to the house also pick a job to buy a house buy a car, and his hard work are all children, life savings for children. And even some parents make the children happy at crime black money. Therefore, the children always living in the sweet happiness of the parent care among the particularly strong dependence on the parent, the natural resistance to weather a storm is particularly bad.
4, \The children in school, it means that the students into a safe, responsible for the survival of all the schools. Regardless of where the accident occurred,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as long as still in school, parents find a school unconditionally trouble, and launching a campaign to ask for money and goods. The school completely changed their way of making money to interest-earning enterprises and banks. Because they recognize only one reason: as long as a student, no matter what happens, it should be the responsibility of the school, even if the children die in their own home, the school claims the necessity for the community.
unprincipled parents made me care of their children because what is it? First, historical and cultural reasons. Five thousand years of civilization in the ancient, \Therefore, students in thousands of years our ancestors to consciously follow the \Farmers, in the past even the full problem is not resolved, the parent can not afford to read books of several generations, are now banking on their children read more books, Zaikuzailei father carrying, no matter how tough the child can not be bitter, so only a wish : as long as the kids to school, the parent cattle and horses do not regret; Third, for political reasons, in the past not to engage in family planning, a peasant family to a lot of kids, of course, does not read good books, and now is a peasant family in the general child Up to two children (more children of individual families), economic situation had improved, of course, want their children to read more books to look forward to their children dragon and phoenix, the family line. So the children learn from Iraq Yu ah to university graduates, is basically entirely dependent on the father,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], grew up in the warm light, as long as encountered wind and rain, cover your natural Duyou blocked off for their father. Therefore, in the child's independent ability to survive, was in the education failure.
Third, from the United States the \The purpose of traditional education is \
in the United States have such a famous saying: The United States is getting a big child, the child is holding large. That is, since the children will climb from the moment, the U.S. parent has the child as an independent existence, to give him the power to live independently; in, the children are part of the Father, and subordinate to the parent, some children end no independent power. In the United States, toddler, child in front, followed by only looking at the parent, any how he walked, even if the fall no matter, let him pick back up. In the, if a child just learning to walk in front, behind I am afraid that is not only a father, and grandparents along with holding the last several generations of parents holding, also refused to leave even let go. U.S. view is that: the foot and then small, it is used to walking, there must be away from intimacy, care, do not push in the back (Stand behind, don't push). In to say: the child is still small, should hold.
If we carefully taste, the United States of \The first train to survive adversity, and the second is a publicity, culture of innovation with the genius, the third is the doctrine of education first. Educational goals, especially the United States is very clear: to cultivate a \
1, \U.S. education, training goal is to \, it can not read without a university, the university entrance exam is open. If the U.S. college kids just want to points by the school, the teacher's recommendation, and the performance of social activities, you can apply for university. Not willing to hire, it depends on the needs of the University. College kids do not need to worry about, because the university did not admit, that the university can be admitted, All roads lead to Rome. University education, especially as the United States two years ago the University of survival of the general curriculum in the City (Job necessary professional courses), or fourth year in school can go to test a more advanced degree, all the primary school to university education is study and research closely linked. Usually cases, often a few students graduate examination (such as the chemistry of the addition to obtain a doctor of chemistry, but then obtain a Ph.D. in Mathematics, etc.). Closely related to learning and survival. So they trained the students with a strong social adaptation and technological innovation.
2, the United States pay more attention to the education process of secondary education, but have neglected the educational outcomes, that is not to learn the university entrance exam, only to scientific research methods to master the skills and learning, the philosopher, I have a word, he did not use, pour Let the United States used: \The words with the United States, the United States Father \If the United States, California's one in a middle school chemistry class (a little). So the United States Nobel Prize winners everywhere, also I do not know in which century years which will have a chance of nomination.
3, United States The purpose of family education is to make children \independent viability of the \Therefore, the U.S. parent can be more easily treat their children's education, their children were to maximize the positive points exhumed, allowing their children to achieve self-worth, even if their purpose to pursue a number of little utilitarian goals such as high education, good occupation, etc. , but the fact that this educational method has generated a lot of \In this purpose under the guidance of their children is extremely easy to cultivate self-awareness and independent living skills. In the United States, children from an early age to sleep, when will walk to their play, the parent holding little play; then be more content when there own space, room furnishings, decorations and clean up all the kids responsible. Special focus on training kids to parents to do whatever the paid services,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], such as making clean, to help children to see,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], delivering newspapers, etc., to the high school or college after school Le Gong Jian, in exchange for tuition and living expenses. U.S. students and the equality of independent cells will inadvertently train out.
look at the United ism education. Unlike us, every day, thunder and to educate students, a variety of teaching doctrine voluminous that they can not implement real education to go. Let us look at two examples of capitalist education.
1, start with the uniform start. The uniform classification of autumn could be seen in every place of the high school students wear uniforms, they regard it as sacred, so sacred and inviolable flag. On behalf of a school uniform as the dignity, so the school so it should be uniform, regardless of when and where, is an honor to wear school uniforms. In the philosophy of the students, school uniforms do not forget to make your own copies. Now the students have around the same concept: a school uniform is to tell him: never forget that their students were. Do bad things to wear any uniform, there is always a restless mind, always feel guilty at home and in school uniform is a concrete embodiment.
2, is reflected in every aspect of education. We look at a middle school in an examination of this question: \so real, so in their textbooks just put the aggression in World War II and Southeast Asia in the history of a family wiped off, changing the order to seek the \national spirit all too clear.
this case, the United States is no different. Marxist education is not only full of beauty schools, families, and all levels of society are all reflected in a strong spirit.
1,, starting from the lectern. Schools in the United States, to be able to see the U.S. flag, maps, beautiful portraits of outstanding things U.S. president, to the United States and songs can be heard. Especially in the lectern, left corner is the flag, right corner of a globe.
2,, from kindergarten. United States doctrine of education, from kindergarten to the twelfth year in order to learn the following courses: Family, family, school, neighborhood, community, state history, community, geography, U.S. history, world cultures (Western Hemisphere), world geography or history, U.S. History, U.S. political, civil or world culture, world history and so on. Progressive approach to course content, from the family home to the world, but geography, history, the largest proportion, to let young people know their home, their ancestors, so that the spirit and concept of the United States deeply heart.
3,, from the \U.S. \\sense.
4, the U.S. doctrine of education embodied in two aspects: First, developing a \The starting point is the U.S. citizen pride and sense of responsibility. Its rich in content, it is through religion, media, festivals and living environment, a variety of channels, the ever-present, omnipresent and all-round, multi-dimensional space-time to permeate the lives of the United States, re-educate the nation's students, \home of the world's strongest, as a United States is the world's most proud of, \a strong sense of pride.
I often think, since World War II, the United States to \The economy should be strong in the U.S. behind, this doctrine of education - a strong immersion education credit. Such education should be a way we can learn from.
This is the United States, \If the United States to develop a family education and publicity, creative, viable, \This is the home-school \\This has the utilitarian goals of education, their expectations high, the strong utilitarian, not all people can afford. To every child can achieve \For this purpose, the father of the child's school performance of particular concern, the only requirement is that the children sit down calmly reading talents, thereby ignoring the child's talent, limit their creativity, the results to develop so-called \\As the children throughout the long process of education, few consider the grid, social adjustment, civic and moral awareness of such issues, even if the study results better in the future may not be successfully based on the community, relative to the parent expectations tend to make full nothing. Such as the 1989 Tiananmen Square \
2, \In order to break through the barriers of the traditional examination-oriented education, education reform has several times in the autumn, from the \a \Not to mention the \More difficult for parents to know what the \They have only one idea: everything for the kids to college! Dragon and Phoenix all the children! This is big science, nothing can beat this reason!

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