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Determine the Weighting Score of Your Pros and Cons List
If you feel no relief when seeing that the Pros list is larger than the Cons list and are still feeling uneasy, it is time to put a Weighting on each item on the lists. This weighting is either: 1,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], 2 or 3.
For the Pros,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], give a weighting of: For the Cons, give a weighting of:
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First, review the goals that you have written down in the past and determine which choice brings you closer to your goals. This step alone may be the key to helping you make the correct decision.
Create a Pros and Cons List
Step 1: Goal Setting Quadrant
Have you ever faced a big decision and felt paralyzed with fear and torn about what to do? l have worked with many clients who have been faced with wonderful new opportunities and yet they felt overwhelmed by the task of determining how to make the best decision.
The 4 Steps that will Guide You to Make the Right Decision
Each quadrant of the Body Light Wellness Wheel has strategies to guide you and decision making tools to assist you. Depending on the complexity of your decision,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you may need to complete one or two quadrants or all four quadrants. From the Goal Quadrant we learn about the power of writing things down. Consciously, you have the power of your mind to use logic and to analyze your options.
Review Your Goals
Big decisions are challenging when there are many factors to consider and when all the choices have positive potential. When faced with a big complex decision, it is important to break your decision making process into manageable steps and to use all of the tools that you have available.
If reviewing your goals did not give you a sense of clarity about your decision,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], take a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle. At the top in the first column, write “Pros” and in the second column write “Cons”. List out all of the Pros and Cons you can think of. Add up the number of Pros and the number of Cons. You may have 5 Pros and 3 Cons. Become aware of how the numbers of each of these columns makes you feel. If you feel relief at seeing the 5 Pros, you may have found the answer you were looking for.