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It's one of the few things your child can do that will make your cringe. A high-pitched, eardrum mincing, teeth grinding shriek that goes on and on and on. Sometimes to the accompaniment of heels blowing on the floor, or fists on the walls. You may have to duck as the toys start flying, because your toddler is having a temper tantrum.
The reasons for having temper tantrums, are relatively simple. Remember, at the age of 1-3, when most kid will throw tantrums, their globe is fairly straightforward, as is their way of arraying it, and putting things in their place.
Children have tantrums because they are tired, frustrated, seeking care, or possibly because they are coming down with someone, or they are attempting to gain control over their everyday activities.
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When your child throws a tantrum, the best course may be to ignore it, but not to quit the child single. In their very simple way of calculating, that can be interpreted as abandonment. If the tantrum involves behavior that is adverse, or highly destructive (such as in a grocery cache),[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], your best course is to take them to a quiet area for a time-out, or to clutch them firmly until they have silenced down.
Sometimes the tantrum can be occasioned by multiple issues of being tired, and the tower of blocks falling over, then Mommy refusing to help construct it afresh. That can lead to a more intense exhibition of temper. The key to successfully managing toddler tantrums, is not to lose your own temper in the process. Remain cool and calm. If you can't, put the child in their time out speck and push out of reach,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], until the worst of the tempest has passed.
This story was posted above August 10, 2005